Our Future Home

The idea of building our next home still feels like a dream.  Especially since we’re in that waiting mode — the one that’s so hard for some of us (me) because it requires patience. We’re waiting to close on our lot; we’re waiting to finalize the floor plan; we’re waiting for the next meeting with the builder…we’re waiting…

I really never expected to be given this opportunity.  When my husband and I met, he was working as a carpenter for a homebuilder.  Because of some of his experiences as a carpenter, he’s always been quick to say that he didn’t think that building a home would be worth the headaches involved.   It’s true; there are so many things to think about. (Where are the Property Brothers when I need them?) Things I’ve never given much thought are now running through my head. Do I like windows with or without panes? Why are there so many ugly colors of brick? (No offense intended.) How big does the kitchen island really need to be? Which is better painted or stained cabinets? And on and on and on…

Many people including our realtor suggested the best way to begin this process is for both of us to make “must haves” and “no way” lists. My hubby wasn’t too keen on the idea because he likes to mull things over in his mind. Lists just aren’t part of his thinking mode. Eventually, after many discussions we started our lists. My list includes items that might be considered design related – lots of windows, a big pantry and a soaker tub in the master bath. Even though my husband said that he really didn’t have any must haves, it soon became apparent that he really has quiet a few. His list is more building related and includes the type of insulation, the size of the studs and where the utilities etc. will be placed.

My List

• lots of windows
• walk in pantry
• fireplace
• big porch
• large closet in the master, but not in the bath
• bench in master shower
• soaker tub in master
• deck/patio
• interesting oven vent or decorative cabinet above stove
• built-in microwave, but not above stove
• lots of storage
• semi open floor plan
• entry or foyer

His List

• Crown molding in family room, kitchen and dining
• Porches
• lots of electrical outlets
• full sprinklers
• high ceilings
• place to park motorhome
• area for dog run
• driveway and garages on the side
• workshop area
• highly rated windows
• 2 X 6 studs
• High-Density Cellulose Insulation
• corner fireplace

No Way

• two-story
• outside doors in bedrooms (his)
• extremely large master baths (we want to utilize space as much as possible)
• white brick
• high maintenance
• skylights (his)
• no formal dining (?)